Lavender, no you weren't in the people who ignored me.
I do understand the chat can be busy, but after i write 6 or 7 messages, it doesn't matter how people are busy , its impossible that no one read any of the message, since they are reading a chat and following all other people, which mean they just ignore, what they don't care about.
I can understand also that 1 message or 2 might be not seen i did miss message too when people say hello or other short things, but if someone try to talk and write a line or 2 long sentence, then i don't think its possible to miss it with 12 people in the chat.
Also weretiger, trust me , i didn't get mad, as other people saw in CB when i write it might look im mad or something, but i'm not, it's just disappointment, not anger.
I would stay for the nice people i met here, but that would not do any good, since they can be pretty fine if i'm here or not, i didn't stay enough time to be missed by people i think.
So again, i'm not angry, but i don't like some things, and it's not that i can check the forum often only to see, if the people that was nice are online or not.
I know a group of people that are friends from years, will never accept a critic from someone who just stayed a bit more then a week, but that is the limit of people, instead of trying to understand why someone leave, they just point a finger and give fault, since it's easier to do as a group.
Vampire, it's not a friend or not question, i don't mind if they don't like me or they do, it's about respect. And if you say something in chat i do answer, if you are friend of mine or not.
You can even tell me, we are busy. or sorry no time to answer you , or whatever. But ignoring is not about friend or not, is about been polite or not.
P.S i will drop by in the chatbox, to have a chat with the people i found very nice once in a while, if it's not proibited by any forum rules.